Uninhibited.

"Your body is yours to protect and to enjoy." She raises both eyebrows at me meaningfully. 

"Whoever you should choose to partake in that enjoyment, that is your choice, and choose wisely. Every man that ever got to touch me was afforded an honor. A privilege." Stormy waves her hand over me.

"All this? It's a privilege to worship at this temple, do you understand my meaning? Not just any young fool can approach the throne. Remember my words, Lara Jean. You decide who, how far, and how often, if ever."

~ P.S. I still love you, by Jenny Han.

To all the girls reading this: BE VOCAL.

When he asks you to come over and you gulp; do not misconstrue it for the nervousness on the first sleepover. If you are not on the same page with him, be vocal about it. 

When he invites you to his place after the first date and you quiver; do not misinterpret it as the butterflies. If you are ill at ease with spending alone time with him, be vocal about it. 

When he kisses you, with his hands squashing your butt and your body jolts; do not color it as arousal. If you want him to let go, tell him, right there, right then.

If you don't like the way he feels you up, tell him, with that ironclad voice of yours, make it lucid enough for him to understand that you do not want it; that you are not "asking for it". If you do not want him to devour your body, be vocal about it.